The Perfect Man..

..is there really such a thing, prob not but I can dream right :)

The real truth to why I am even going to begin to try and describe my "perfect" idea of a guy is because one of my friends sent me his list of his "perfect" girl and he insisted on me having a response.. so here goes.. (in no particular order)

-great smile
-ability to make me laugh at any time
-honest
-if im in a bad mood, he's gotta be able to cheer me up (really this prob sounds a lot harder than it actually is, a hug usually works)
-cuddly
-able to handle my busy lifestyle (lets face it, im not around much I can't be with someone who needs me every second)
-outgoing
-nice guy (nice guys don't always finish last, I personally HATE jerks)
-family-oriented
-athletic (it really bothers me when a guy can't just play catch)
-silly and serious (there's a time and place for everything)
-has his own interests, and not just like everything that I like
-has his own friends
-appreciates the little things (we all know its really the little things that matter)
-able to have fun with me out and about or watching youtube on my couch
-doesn't smoke
-intelligent
-open doors (yes, i'm old fashioned)
-confident, notice i did not say cocky
-clean
-be a friend (don't you want your 'man' to be your best friend)
-great eyes
-able to hold his end of the conversation
-financially stable
-get along with with my friends and family
-acts the same around everyone
-caring
-not jealous, been there done that (to me, this does not prove that you care, to me this means you are not confident being with me)
-gentleman
-romantic
-independent (needy guys get on my nerves)
-able to cook (and clean :) I said perfect right.. )
-hard-working
-goal oriented (he's gotta know what he wants and actually go for it)
-want to learn
-likes to travel
-good to his mama (they always say a guy will treat you like he treats his mama)
-handy (fixing things)
-good with kids
-and wants at least one of his own
-considerate
-friendly
-fun
-creative
-spontaneous
-can iron (I almost cut my finger off ironing, I'm not a fan)
-good dresser
-likes to try new things (restaurants, whatever)
-makes me happy
-agree to sometimes watch a chick flick (not always, but sometimes)
-keeps his promises
-quick witted
-competitive (he's gotta be able to keep up with me)
-playful
-no stalker tendencies
-appreciates me
-sweet
-likes christmas (yep, im a christmas nerd, i love christmas songs and lights, and decorations)
-supportive
-loving

this seems like a pretty long list, and it changes as i grow older, i think it actually gets longer as i get older, but I guess the older i am the more i know what i actually want, whats really important to me, and i dont settle for anything else, so why this...

really, i think most people are going to have pretty similar responses, but i guess everyone has their own personal flair that they throw into the mix.. and who knows.. maybe he's out there..

somewhere.